쉽게말해 자존감없는사람 같다는말일까요?  네 저는 어렸을때부터 아버지가 언어폭력이 심하셔서 화목한가정도 아니었고 사랑도못받았어요그러다 보니 친구나 여자친구에게 의지하고 사랑받는 느낌이 들게 날 위해 뭘하거나 좀더 배려있게 행동해주길원해요.  근데 자존감이없어서라기보다 좀더 배려해달란말은 다른 의미아니에요?  적어도 너가 만나는사람이 난데 예를들어 시간약속이나 여행계획?  같이 정해야할것들?  좀더 매너좀 지켜달라하니 왠 자존감 얘기가나오죠?