무작정 그사람에 단점을 말하면 아무리 맞는말이라도 기분이 나쁘죠 하지만 그 사람이 자기한테 그 단점을고쳤으면 좋겠다라고 듣느사람을 존중하면서 말하면 그 충고를 받아드리죠 똑같은거예요.