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한국어 자막을 보시려면 재생 후 영상 하단의 언어목록에서 Korean을 선택하시면 됩니다.


토니 포터: 남자들에게 고함

TEDWomen에서 토니 포터는 모든 남자들에게 "남자처럼 행동" 말라고 요청합니다.
그의 삶에서의 경험담을 말하면서, 이런 사고방식이 어떻게 많은 남자들과 소년들에게 주입되는지와
남자들 서로에게 그리고 여자들에게 무례하게 대하고 학대하며 혹사시킬 수 있음을 보여줍니다.
그의 해결책은 'man box'에서 벗어나라는 것입니다

출처 : TED
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/ko/tony_porter_a_call_to_men.html



외국에서도 남자를 억압하고 감정을 드러내선 안되며 강인함을 넘어 자칫 권위적으로 크도록 하는군요.
"남자는 이래야돼, 남자는 그러면 안되, 남자는..."

단순히 남자아이에게만 남자라는 틀을 만들어져 있는게 아니라,
여자아이에게도 어떠한 틀이 만들어져 있을 것이라고 생각합니다.
이러한 틀을 깰 때, 진정한 남녀가 평등한 사회가 되지 않을까 생각해봅니다.